Comments on: Out of My Control http://fullofsnark.com/2007/08/16/out-of-my-control/ Tales of a Chicago Singleton Who Keeps the Wineries in Business Wed, 08 Feb 2012 07:13:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: alyndabear http://fullofsnark.com/2007/08/16/out-of-my-control/comment-page-1/#comment-979 alyndabear Fri, 17 Aug 2007 23:47:28 +0000 http://fullofsnark.com/?p=299#comment-979 Damn. I have PeoplePleaseritis too, and I want it GONE. Damn. I have PeoplePleaseritis too, and I want it GONE.

]]> By: Ree http://fullofsnark.com/2007/08/16/out-of-my-control/comment-page-1/#comment-978 Ree Fri, 17 Aug 2007 14:05:50 +0000 http://fullofsnark.com/?p=299#comment-978 This, is sooooo me: "I, for one, have been doing it my entire life, not even knowing, " And at the job too. I'm sure it's why I'm in the position that I'm in though.....it seems to be how I climbed the ladder. Probably this organization's culture. I always wonder what it will be like at my new job - whenever and wherever that ends up being. This, is sooooo me:

“I, for one, have been doing it my entire life, not even knowing, ”

And at the job too. I’m sure it’s why I’m in the position that I’m in though…..it seems to be how I climbed the ladder. Probably this organization’s culture. I always wonder what it will be like at my new job – whenever and wherever that ends up being.

]]> By: Eileen http://fullofsnark.com/2007/08/16/out-of-my-control/comment-page-1/#comment-977 Eileen Fri, 17 Aug 2007 05:41:26 +0000 http://fullofsnark.com/?p=299#comment-977 Great post! I have also fought this People Pleasing disease for so long, but as you get older, it gets easier to stop. I try really hard to go with wtf attitude, not to take it personally, unless someone comes to me directly and then we can talk about it. I still slip, but I am in a much better place. It does stem back from trying to adapt in childhood, you turn into whoever "they" want you to be. Very insightful! Great post! I have also fought this People Pleasing disease for so long, but as you get older, it gets easier to stop. I try really hard to go with wtf attitude, not to take it personally, unless someone comes to me directly and then we can talk about it. I still slip, but I am in a much better place. It does stem back from trying to adapt in childhood, you turn into whoever “they” want you to be. Very insightful!

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